You’re Invited to Celebrate
Naomi Rincon’s Quinceañera
at Westminster!
For many in our congregation, this may be their first Quinceañera invitation, so this site features a few essential details to help everyone feel prepared. More details with traditions that will be honored are available below.
Saturday, April 18th from 3:00 to 6:00 p.m. at Westminster Church
(Sanctuary and Westminster Hall)
Please R.S.V.P. By April 1st!
The Rincon Family
Art, Ana
Naomi and Elliot
Essential Details:
Here are some important details, if you have other questions please email laura@westpres.org.
All Ages Invited
Children are welcome to attend with their families. For the comfort of all, the family asks that kids remain calm during the event or use the playroom as needed. The playroom will be staffed by an adult throughout the night. For kids‘ safety they will need to be checked in and out of the playroom.
What Should I Wear?
Think of this like a wedding ceremony and reception. Naomi will have a large gown for the celebration, we recommend formal wedding attire for guests but it is not required. If you’d like to fit into the theme please wear pastel colors!
Should I Bring a Gift?
Naomi has requested that guests bring donations for the food pantry in lieu of gifts for her.
Will There Be Food?
Absolutely! Quinceañera food typically features a large, celebratory buffet of traditional Mexican dishes with crowd-pleasing favorites. The meal will also feature kid-friendly foods.
Naomi with her sister, Elliot
Quinceanera Traditions
The traditions of a Quinceañera party go back centuries. Otherwise known as quince anos or quinces, is a valued tradition that celebrates a young girls new milestone into adult hood. Unlike the American “Sweet 16” celebration, Quinceañera are celebrations for when a young woman turns 15 years old.
Rooted in Latin culture, quince celebrations are still different depending on the location and era you might have lived in. From traditional Mexico history to United States creativity, quinceaneras are performed all over the world. However they are celebrated their core values are the most important.
Worship
It all begins with a worship service in the Sanctuary. Entering the church, the quinceanera will be accompanied with her court as well as her family and godparents. The readings are chosen by the quinceanera and are usually spoken by her.
The Quinceanera Traditional Court
The Quinceanera court is made up of her closest friends.
The girls of the Quinceañera court are called “damas,” while the boys are called “chambelanes”.The damas and chambelanes will be with the quinceanera throughout the day and are usually with her until all her other guests leave.
The outfit and dresses of the Quinceañera usually coordinate with the rest of her traditional court. The Quinceañera and her friends will probably be part of a dance number during reception! It takes a lot of dedicated practice and time to get the routine right, so it’s not an easy task to be part of the Quinceañera court!
Father-Daughter Dance
One of the most memorable moments during the quinceañera will come when the father dances with his daughter. This usually happens at the beginning as it is very important. The song will usually be very meaningful for the dad and his daughter as she celebrates this new milestone in her life.
The Quinceanera Toast
To honor the quinceañera on her special day, her parents and family will take the time to thank the family and friends. It’s a rather emotional time for the family since they now see their daughter in a new light. After the parents are all done speaking, the quinceañera will say a few words of her own. The quinceañera‘s toast is significant because it will be the first time she is speaking as a young woman.
Cake Cutting
Like any great celebration, there has to be cake involved! Accompanied by her parents the quinceañera cuts the cake in front of all her guests. Just like at weddings it’s a great moment for pictures.
The Quinceanera Gown
If it’s your birthday, of course you want to be in the spotlight! Symbolizing an “adult dress” the quinceañera tradition gown is meant to be a lavish outfit. Colors are important too since it can help be part of the coordination of the quinceañera and her family. Naomi has chosen lavender or light purple for her color.
The Last Doll
The father usually gives the quinceañera a doll to symbolize leaving childish possessions in replacement for more adult items. This doesn’t mean that the daughter can’t buy dolls in the future, but rather saying her interests will move past toys. The doll will usually be dressed like the quinceañera to represent her.
High Heels
What could symbolize adulthood better rather than a pair of high heeled shoes? This gift is usually given by the parents or family members of the quinceañera to pave the way to being an adult. In retrospect, flats represent a sense of childhood, while heels is a step toward being an adult.
Jewelry
Gifting jewelry to a quinceañera is a reminder to keep her ears open to God and her faith. This means practicing what she preaches, as she grows older.
Tiara
A tiara is meant to symbolize the beauty of the quinceañera in the eyes of God. This headpiece is lovingly placed on the young woman during the ceremony.
Scepter
A scepter is a symbolism of authority and a new set of responsibilities. Usually symbolizing faith and sovereignty, it shows that the daughter is a woman, not anymore just a young girl.
Conclusion
Everyone has different traditions for a quinceañera; in the end it is about welcoming a girl to womanhood with a celebration of her with her friends and family.
Knowing these important quinceañera traditions is a great way to start off and discover what really makes a quinceañera special. Keeping in mind the overall celebration means you can get it done.
if you have other questions please email laura@westpres.org.